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How did you start a new relationship after narcissistic abuse?

… this is how one person recovered….

Self-Discovery

First, I took a six-year journey of self-discovery and healing. I read over 400 books, starting with studies of children from alcoholic families (the person I had been married to was such a one). Once I discovered the disorders of Cluster B, I learned everything I could about what had happened to me, why, and what part I had played in the toxic relationship. I sought every healing modality, old and new, physical, emotional, and spiritual.

Second, I committed completely to No Contact with the narcissist. I never looked back.

Third, I jettisoned anyone who socialized with the narcissist. This included most of my friends and acquaintances. When I was ready, I created two lists of what I wanted in a mate. The first was ten essential character traits—deal breakers if not present. Honesty, for example, was my number one. And I committed to walking away from any compromise of those traits.

The second was ten “nice to have” traits, like tall and strong, for example. These were not deal breakers but just requests I put out into the universe. I asked myself, on a scale of 1–10, how much I believed in the possibility of finding such a person, and I brought myself up to a 10. After everything else I had accomplished, this was the biggest challenge of all. But you know what? Once I arrived at this point, the love of my life showed up two weeks later. We are now married and living a wonderful, narcissist-free life. I now know what it feels like to be loved by my partner.

I wish the same for all who desire it.

…copied from Quora

At this point I’m enjoying the quiet freedom. No more yelling, crying, and being blamed for reacting to his nonsense. No more stress brought on by something he did or said. In December it will have been two years…

One day, my prince may come but as for now – it’s quiet and I’m enjoying it!

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