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7 words that destroy a narcissist

What if I told you that it’s not silence that bothers the narc most… it’s your words?

And by that I don’t mean loud words, not angry words and not emotional reactions! By that I mean the “right” words.

Because I think that the narc can handle your tears, your begging and even your anger, because let’s be honest, they expect it because that makes the narc feel powerful.

But there are some kinds of words, simple words actually, calm and clear words… that hits the narc in a place they work very hard to protect… I mean their ego, their control and illusion.

Trust me, when you say these words the right way, you will notice a change in the narc face, a moment of shock and confusion… because they can no longer twist things or control them… And that’s the part the narc fears the most.

~ quora

1. “I know the truth about you” or “I see right through you.”
That’s right, narcissists cannot stand to have their masks unceremoniously removed and their true selves called out. So, if the narcissist claims to be something that you know for sure they are not, it might really bother them to hear you say that you see through them.

2. “I don’t remember that…”
Narcissists have a way of expecting their sources of narcissistic supply to just go along with their lies, no matter what. So if you’re with a group of friends and they tell a completely made-up story, you better go along with it or you’ll hurt their feelings, eliciting narcissistic injury at the very least and probably risking dealing with their rage later.

3. “I’m busy and I don’t have time for you right now.”
Narcissists, especially those of the more overt nature, will need every moment of your time, or at the very least, they will expect you to drop whatever you’re doing when they want or need your attention at any given moment. Their inflated sense of entitlement and a lack of actual self makes it impossible for them to spend any time alone. They really can’t stand the idea of having to fend for themselves and they might have to face themselves if you leave them alone for too long. So no matter if you’re at work or you’re taking care of your kid or doing anything else at all, they’re going to want your attention in the very second they ask for it. If you don’t dole it out as requested, they’re going to crumble into a big old pile of narcissistic injury.

4. “You’re a failure,” or “I’m so disappointed in you.”
Telling a narcissist that they’re a failure or that you’re disappointed in them in any way sort of tugs at that false self, the mask they hide behind for most people. Even if they already know that you know who they are, acknowledging they’re anything less than perfect is only going to enrage and offend them.

5. “It’s your fault.”
You probably already know that narcissists refuse to take responsibility for their behavior, at least when it comes to anything that makes them feel like they look bad. They will blame everyone but themselves for all of their failures and screw-ups. On top of that, they’re going to expect you to go along with their delusion.

6. “I don’t believe you.”
You know that narcissists are pathological liars, and of course, you’ve learned to take anything they say with a grain of salt, right? With good reason. But if you tell them that you don’t believe them, watch out. They can’t stand it. If you want to avoid drama, don’t bother pointing out their lies. Not only will they never admit the truth, but you can use this to your advantage if necessary.

7. “Goodbye.”
This is the ultimate way to destroy a narcissist. See, they need narcissistic supply to function like a vampire needs blood and darkness to live. If you’re one of their sources of narcissistic supply, they cannot stand the idea of not having you around to dump their emotional garbage on, not to mention giving them the attention, praise, and admiration that they so desperately need. If you say goodbye and you leave, and then you go no contact and stick with it, they will at least temporarily be destroyed. Of course, they’ll also use narcissistic injury here as a way to gain attention from other people and often to find a new source of supply. They play the poor me game, they engage in various smear campaigns about you with anyone who will listen.

Remember that in the end, while you can certainly destroy a narcissist using words such as the ones I shared today, the very best revenge you could get on any narcissist truly is to simply live your life well without them. To find true happiness and peace in your life despite the fact that they exist. Not only with learning that you’re happy without them and living like they don’t exist, destroy a narcissist, but it would make them feel like you’ve kind of won the relationship. Not that you need a trophy like that, but you do deserve to be happy and not live in fear of triggering the next episode of narcissistic rage or injury. No one should have to live like this. Walking on eggshells is both difficult and painful, and they can change you in some very profound ways.

source: 7 words that destroy a narcissist

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